My upbringing as an Asian American female and product of divorced parents created insecurities that make me feel inadequate as a human. But now that I am a mother, especially to my baby girl, I need to show her the strength, growth and confidence that I am gaining from my life experiences. There are times where I put other women down in my mind because they’re smarter, more beautiful, wittier, taller, etc. than me… but what does that demonstrate for my children? I should be happy with myself and I don’t need validation from anyone else (not a friend, man, or family member). We need to lift each other up, especially our children. I live for me and that’s the best example I can set for my babies. Be you and be proud!